Reviewed by Yehuda Roberts

April 27, 2024

Helping Men Overcome Depression

Learn how to help men with depression, shatter stigma, and promote healthier masculinity norms.

Understanding Depression in Men

Depression is a pervasive mental health issue that affects millions of individuals worldwide, and men are no exception. It's essential to understand the prevalence and triggers of depression in men to effectively help those in need.

Prevalence of Depression in Men

Depression affects 1 in 8 men at some point in their lives. This pervasive mental health issue can put individuals at risk of suicide. In fact, in Australia alone, 7 men die by suicide every day, highlighting the crucial need for awareness and intervention in men's mental health [1].

Men may find it difficult to acknowledge and talk about their feelings or show that they're upset. These societal pressures and expectations can make it hard for them to acknowledge that they may be experiencing depression.

Triggers of Depression in Men

Depression in men can be triggered by challenging life events or issues. These include, but are not limited to, the death of a family member, unemployment, past or continuing abuse, or stress at work. It's important to note that triggers can be individual and what may severely affect one person may not have the same impact on another.

Potential Triggers of Depression in Men
Death of a family member
Unemployment
Past or continuing abuse
Stress at work

Understanding how to identify and manage these triggers can be beneficial in managing depression. It's crucial for individuals and their support systems to recognize these triggers and seek professional help when needed.

Depression is not a sign of weakness, and it's essential to break down the barriers preventing men from seeking help. Understanding the prevalence and triggers of depression in men is a critical first step in shattering the stigma and offering support.

Signs and Symptoms of Depression in Men

Depression is a serious and pervasive condition that affects people of all genders, including men. But, it's crucial to understand that the signs and symptoms of depression in men can be different from those in women. Recognizing these differences and understanding how to identify depression in men is essential for providing the right support and treatment.

Recognizing Depression in Men

Depression affects 1 in 8 men at some point in their lives and can put people at risk of suicide. In Australia, 7 men die by suicide every day. Men may find it difficult to acknowledge and talk about their feelings or show that they're upset. This can make it hard for them to recognize or admit that they may be experiencing depression.

The signs of depression in men can vary widely, but they may include persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest in activities they once enjoyed. Other common symptoms include fatigue, difficulty concentrating, changes in appetite or weight, and physical aches and pains.

Recognizing these signs is the first step towards getting men the help they need. However, the stigma surrounding mental health issues often prevents men from seeking help, which is why it's so crucial for friends, family members, and healthcare professionals to be vigilant about these symptoms.

Gender Differences in Expressing Depression

Men and women tend to experience and report the signs of depression differently. Instead of expressing feelings of sadness or hopelessness, men are more likely to talk about the physical symptoms of depression, such as feeling tired or losing weight [1]. They might also display signs of irritability or anger, or engage in risky behaviors.

Women, on the other hand, are more likely to express feelings of sadness, worthlessness, and excessive guilt when they are depressed. They may also experience changes in their sleeping and eating patterns more often than men.

These gender differences in expressing depression can make it more challenging to recognize depression in men. However, understanding these differences can help healthcare providers and loved ones to identify the signs of depression in men more effectively and provide the support and treatment they need.

Strategies to Support Men with Depression

When it comes to supporting men with depression, a comprehensive approach involving medical treatment and social support is critical. Understanding the available treatment options and the importance of social support can provide valuable insights into how to help men with depression.

Treatment Options for Men

Effective treatment for depression in men can involve a mix of different types of therapies. These treatments range from medication and psychological treatments to brain stimulation therapies, self-help techniques, and alternative therapies.

Here are some common treatment options:

  1. Medication: Antidepressants can help manage the symptoms of depression. These medications work by balancing chemicals in the brain that affect mood and emotions.
  2. Psychological Treatments: Therapies like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), interpersonal therapy (IPT), and other types of counseling can be effective in treating depression.
  3. Brain Stimulation Therapies: In severe cases of depression, brain stimulation therapies such as electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) may be considered.
  4. Self-Help and Coping: There are several self-help strategies that men can adopt to deal with depression. These include regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and reducing alcohol intake.
  5. Alternative Therapies: Some men might find relief with alternative therapies such as acupuncture, meditation, and the use of herbal supplements. However, these methods should be used in conjunction with traditional treatments and not as a replacement.

Each individual is unique and so is the treatment plan. It is important for men to work closely with their healthcare provider to find the treatment plan that best suits their needs.

Importance of Social Support

Social support plays a significant role in maintaining good physical and mental health. It can enhance resilience to stress, protect against developing trauma-related psychopathology, decrease the functional consequences of disorders such as PTSD, and reduce medical morbidity and mortality. Numerous studies have documented these beneficial effects.

Conversely, low social support has been associated with physiological and neuroendocrine indices of heightened stress reactivity, elevated heart rate, increased blood pressure, and exaggerated cardiovascular and neuroendocrine responses to laboratory stressors [2]. Additionally, social isolation and low levels of social support have been linked with increased morbidity and mortality in various medical illnesses [2].

For men dealing with depression, having a strong support network can significantly help in their journey towards better mental health. This can come in the form of family, friends, support groups, or mental health professionals. The key is to ensure that they do not feel alone and have someone they can trust and talk to about their feelings and experiences.

In conclusion, a combination of appropriate treatment and robust social support can significantly help in managing depression in men. It's essential to encourage men to seek help, support them in their journey, and work towards shattering the stigma surrounding men's mental health.

Overcoming Stigma Surrounding Men's Mental Health

Men dealing with depression often face an added layer of challenges due to societal stigma surrounding men's mental health. Understanding the impact of this stigma and promoting help-seeking behavior are key steps in helping men overcome depression.

Impact of Stigma on Men

Stigma towards individuals with mental health conditions can lead to discrimination, resulting in negative remarks, avoidance, or unintentional judgments based on misconceptions about mental illnesses [3]. Men's experiences of mental illness stigma have far-reaching and profound consequences, including impacting mental health help-seeking, diminishing social connection, and amplifying economic hardship.

Research indicates that men hold more stigmatizing attitudes towards those with depression, anxiety, and suicide in comparison to women, especially young men and men with lower mental health literacy. Such stigma can be reinforced by peers, work colleagues, family, health professionals, and the wider community, leading to feelings of fear, shame, embarrassment, guilt, and isolation.

Stigma around mental health issues is particularly acute for men, who may lack mental health literacy and fear being judged for exposing vulnerability, especially by other men. Men adhering to traditional masculinity norms are less likely to seek assistance, leading to underdiagnosis of depression in men [5].

Promoting Help-Seeking Behavior

Despite these challenges, there are strategies that can help men manage mental illness stigma and mitigate its negative effects. Peer support and increasing mental health literacy can be particularly effective.

Many men misrecognize depression, resulting in risk-taking behaviors like alcohol abuse, drug abuse, overworking, and violence. They often seek help only during a crisis or when prompted by significant others, usually women [5].

Engaging men in emotional disclosure and help-seeking can be facilitated by reframing help-seeking within more masculine lines, such as perceiving it as a strength requiring courage, action, and independence. Therapeutic services incorporating practical exercises, goal-setting, and collaboration are appealing to some men.

Breaking down the stigma surrounding men's mental health and promoting help-seeking behavior are crucial steps in supporting men with depression. By fostering a culture of understanding and acceptance, we can help men feel more comfortable seeking the help they need, ultimately leading to better mental health outcomes.

Masculinity Norms and Depression

In the discussion of depression in men, it's crucial to address the influence of masculinity norms on help-seeking behavior and how breaking down these barriers can foster healthier mental health environments for men.

Influence of Masculinity on Help-Seeking

Traditional masculinity norms can heavily impact certain groups of men, making help-seeking more challenging. This is particularly evident in specific disadvantaged groups, such as refugee and migrant men, black and minority ethnic men, indigenous men, gay and bisexual men, and rural men, as well as in certain institutional contexts like the military, fire brigade, and team sports.

Men often face barriers to discussing their struggles with mental illness and seeking help. Stigma, a major barrier to men's participation in mental health care, can be reinforced or perpetuated by peers, work colleagues, family, health professionals, and the wider community. Internalized stigma can lead to feelings of fear, shame, embarrassment, guilt, and isolation.

Moreover, men, particularly young men and those with lower mental health literacy, are more likely to hold negative views toward those with mental illness, leading to more stigmatizing attitudes toward depression, anxiety, and suicide in comparison to women [4].

Breaking Down Barriers for Men

Addressing and breaking down these barriers are key to helping men with depression. Peer support, increasing mental health literacy, and reframing mental illness and help-seeking are strategies that can help men manage mental illness stigma and mitigate its negative effects.

Engaging men in emotional disclosure and help-seeking can be facilitated by reframing help-seeking within more masculine lines. Viewing help-seeking as a strength requiring courage, action, and independence can make therapeutic services incorporating practical exercises, goal-setting, and collaboration appealing to some men.

Policy considerations to promote and protect men's mental health in the WHO European Region include challenging harmful aspects of traditional masculinities through gender-transformative actions. Such actions can improve men's health and promote gender equality.

By understanding and addressing the influence of masculinity norms on men's mental health, we can create a more supportive and understanding society that recognizes and respects the mental health needs of all men.

Resources for Men with Depression

In the journey to manage and overcome depression, there are various resources available to help men navigate this challenging path. From national helplines to community-based organizations, understanding what's available can be a crucial step in seeking help.

SAMHSA National Helpline

The SAMHSA National Helpline, also known as, 1-800-662-HELP (4357), is a resource dedicated to providing help to individuals and family members dealing with mental and/or substance use disorders. This helpline offers confidential, free, 24-hour-a-day, 365-day-a-year service in both English and Spanish.

In 2020, this helpline received 833,598 calls, indicating a 27 percent increase from the previous year, where a total of 656,953 calls were received.

It's important to note that while the SAMHSA National Helpline does not provide counseling, it does employ trained information specialists who can answer calls, transfer callers to state services or other appropriate intake centers in their states, and connect them with local assistance and support [6].

One of the key advantages of this service is that it provides referrals to local treatment facilities, support groups, and community-based organizations. For those without insurance or who are underinsured, the helpline can connect them to state offices responsible for state-funded treatment programs. In addition, referrals can be made to facilities that charge on a sliding fee scale or accept Medicare or Medicaid [6].

Support and Assistance Options

Along with the SAMHSA National Helpline, there are numerous other support and assistance options available for men dealing with depression.

These can include:

  • Local mental health clinics
  • Community support groups
  • Online forums and resources
  • Mental health professionals, such as therapists and psychiatrists
  • Family and friends

Each of these resources can play a vital role in supporting men as they navigate their journey with depression. Whether it's through professional treatment, peer support, or personal connections, these resources can provide valuable guidance and support.

Remember, it's never a sign of weakness to seek help. If you or someone you know is struggling with depression, reach out to the SAMHSA National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP (4357) to access the assistance and resources you need.

References

[1]: https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/depression-in-men

[2]: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2921311/

[3]: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/mental-illness/in-depth/mental-health/art-20046477

[4]: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8832600/

[5]: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK559704/

[6]: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline

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